We fear the "good" guy.
Let take it to the surface right.
A bad guy we all know how it is going to finish, and we never feel secure and relaxed in the relationship.
I guess a woman knows how to recognize a player from far, and most of the time we date them because this will be the kind of relationship that you are ready for the end before you even start it, you know how it’s going to end.
But!
A good guy! There are 2 types of good guy
1. The one who looks like a good guy, but he is not one of them and always turns into a perfect evil ( first-class player).
2. The one who is a real good guy and always turns into the perfect boyfriend
Let talk about the first one, okay!?
So the first type of (good guy/player)
Is the kind that makes you believe he is a good guy, the one that everyone asks why you don't date him.
He tells you the truth (they are always honest at the beginning, trust me), he is going to show you how much he is serious, show you how much he wants to be with you.
Through action, he sells your dreams and how he is vulnerable and everything.
He is the kind of guy that makes you trust him at 100%, you end up thinking that he is too good for you, and you start getting comfortable into the relationships, you relax now, but girls, don’t relax, please don't.
Here comes the « boom» day where the guy changed, And by the time you understand what is going on, babe, you are already in love! So you are confused, you don’t understand how he changed.
But how did he change?
What have I done?
You start questioning yourself.
No! Baby girl, this guy was evil since birth, you were too blind to see it.
Now you waste time trying to make him go back to what you think he is because you are so convinced that «he is a good guy»
But let me tell you this; the moment the guy changes, at the first red flag my dear walks away, runnnnnnnnnnn as fast as you can because this is the kind of relationship that will traumatize you and break your trust.
The second guy (a good guy/ best boyfriend)
This is the guy we always doubt about, he has been waiting for years. You know the type of guy who has been into you for years and never gives up, yes, that him.
But you just don’t want to date him because he is not your type because he is too soft or too into you, and you don’t like that
And he is okay with everything, the one that no one could ever imagine you with.
The type of guy you learn to love with time. First, you guys become friends and get close without even realizing it.
It’s very difficult to make healthy relationships because we don’t know the intention at first, we have to take the risk of breaking our hearts and losing trust and confidence so many times to find the right one. But by the time you find the right one, how broken would you be?
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